Thailand’s cultural customs

In Thai culture, as with many Asian countries, a hierarchy of respect is a very big deal. Losing face – feeling humiliated or disrespected – can come in many forms and remembering to follow a few of Thailand's cultural customs will go a long way to ensuring you interact with local Thais in the most respectful way possible. Learning some words in Thai and a few of the social norms related to eating out, what to wear and how to behave in a place of worship, are all important features of responsible travel and will help you get much more from the travel experience, as a whole. Below is a brief introduction to Thailand's cultural customs and if you're visiting the country with a local guide don't be afraid to ask how to do or say something, rather than blindly jumping in – bare feet first.

As mentioned, Thai society works on a time-honoured hierarchy with royalty and devout religious followers, including monks, placed firmly at the top of the pile. The job you hold, your educational background, your age, how you dress, all goes towards how you're seen in the traditional pecking order. It is this social status that will also decree how a person should be respectfully greeted.

Greetings in Thailand usually involve a wai or two. This common gesture is when you place your hands together in a prayer position and gently bow your head. Thai cultural custom dictates that it's the person who is of the lower social status who will offer the wai. Those who are of a very high social status, such as monks, won't even need to respond with a wai of their own. If you're offered a wai in greeting then feel free to return the gesture although you won't be expected to do so for children, waiting staff or street vendors. You’re not being disrespectful you’ll just be observing traditional Thai customs and avoiding any undue embarrassment.

Although people generally touch hands in the West this is not the same in Thailand or many other parts of Asia. It's also disrespectful to touch someone's head or pass something over someone's head. In Bangkok it's perfectly normal for the Skytrain to come to a halt when a member of the royal family is passing underneath. This is because it would be highly disrespectful to be higher than these already elevated members of Thai society.

Feet are another important part of treading in Thailand with respect. As the lowest part of the body, poor old feet are considered the least clean and therefore the least respectful. Showing someone the soles of your feet or pointing your feet in a Thai person's direction or having your feet higher than someone's head – don't ask – will all be deeply disrespectful to a Thai person. This is certainly the case if you're entering a wat (Buddhist temple) or a Thai person's home – and some restaurants and shops – as you're required to remove footwear, making your bare feet at their most offensive.

Thailand’s Buddhist temples follow a strict dress code that needs to be adhered to before entering. Wat Phra Kaew, especially, as it’s in the grounds of the Grand Palace, insists on long trousers and shirts for men. Nothing tight fitting – in that humidity! – is acceptable, including leggings, and no rips or see-through items of clothing. Women will need to wear long skirts below the knee and basically cover up. Sarongs and shawls always come in handy in Thailand. Men and women will both be asked to remove headgear and footwear before entering a temple. Other wat etiquette includes no shouting, pointing, food, phone calls or walking in front of people whilst they’re praying. Also when sitting down, please don’t point your feet at anyone or at an image of Buddha. This might sound like a lot to get your head around but if you’re accompanied by a tour leader or a local guide you’ll be instructed as to what’s appropriate before you’re invited to enter. Don’t worry, there will be signs.